Yes I said Fuck! No it isn’t a big deal. Get over it! Don’t judge, read further!
I know this sounds really absurd, impolite and unprofessional but this is infact an art form that needs to be learned , cherished and perfected in todays times.
Yes and when I say not giving a fuck, I refer to being a badass and being true to yourself and what you love without the fear of being judged by others. Many people compliment me for my bold fashion choices and my ever changing, rainbow spectrum of hair colors. Some may hate that I put on a shit ton of makeup but guess what? I love makeup. I love clothes. I love shoes. Yes I may have 70 pairs of shoes and only 2 little feet to wear them. But do you think I give a fuck? The answer is ‘NO’.
Passing judgment is human nature. It has always been. Judgment is an important human instict that man has used in order to survive. It helps in choosing friends, family, foes and helps one form opinions and a social sphere. However judgment wasn’t much of a problem before because it was confined within the realms of ones own small social groups. But now with the boom of the internet age judgment has become a more public affair. It is the same old judgment with a strong pump of steroids.
It is more important now to ‘NOT GIVE A FLYING FUCK’ than it was ever before. The reason I say this is because now is the time where insecure and jealous people have gotten a public platform to judge every action of yours. All people are entitled to having their opinions and judgments in life, but the internet has created a blackhole of judgments that further lead to online hate and bullying. No one is safe from it anymore, no matter what you do someone will always be against you, questioning your sanity, your opinion and your existence. Not only that but the internet also adds the element of anonymity to the mix which works in favor of all the passers of judgment!
See in times like ours where everyone puts up their best face on the internet. Where happy smiling photos and millions of filters are enough to perfectly protray an amazing life; we become so consumed in liking, commenting, stalking and comparing our lives to others, that delusional thinking is an obvious result of it. In this new age not giving a fuck is the way to go; where comparisons are made so easily and where your own life may seem to get dulled down by the achievements of others – as potrayed via the internet!
Not giving a fuck about the opinions of others is one of the greatest treasures. Because at the end of the day followers, likes and comments do not mean anything. They are just numbers and not a good scale to judge oneself or others on. Self worth doesn’t come by the approvals of others but by the acceptance of oneself. Recognise your own talents and potentials, do what you love no matter what others say!
There will always be someone pointing a finger at you anyways, it’s better to not care.
Let me reference one of my favourite character and his wise words from Game Of Thrones here. It seems apt.
“Never forget what you are, the rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor and it can never be used to hurt you.”
🙌Cheers to not giving a fuck!
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